Eating right has always been a challenge, and losing weight sometimes seems to be impossible. With everything in life, change is hard and finding the right path is never easy. There are more diets available and more advice than one can ever fathom. Being the right weight is not magic, but it is work and a lifestyle commitment.

If you want to be successful, one must commit to change. So many times people say they are unhappy with where they are currently but in the next breath they are comfortable with how everything is and are not willing to consider alternatives. Furthermore, most people who ask for advice do not trust anyone who might have legitimate information. If the advice is sensible and simple it seems even less trustworthy.

Steps To Take

So the first step in changing one’s weight is to understand whether you feel it is problem and whether what you are eating is affecting your life. If you are totally happy with how you feel and with your health, than you have no reason to change. Life is likely to stay the same for you.

A person’s weight is dependent on a complex array of variables from genetics, to exercise to what we eat. There are things we can change and things that maybe outside of our control like our genetics and medical conditions. However, we can control what we eat, how we perceive our food and  we can also control our activity level. So weight management is about our interactions with food.

The temptation is always for people to look for a quick fix. In pain management everyone just wants a pill or quick solution. Once people realize the answer may be complex, the light goes on. If the answer was simple, the problem would likely not exist. Education is one of the best paths toward the solution.

Weight gain was a slow problem that crept up on me. Every year my baseline weight increased. Initially it was ok. When my pants were no longer fitting in the waist and I needed a new wardrobe, it became something I needed to understand. The first issue was as we all grow older, our bodies change. For me I had reached a time when there was a hormone change in my body and that caused a slowing of my metabolism. The old school teaching was calories in and calories out must be balanced. So I just tried to exercise more. Initially that may have worked, but only for a short period of time. However, exercising for hours a day does not work to burn off all the calories taken in by eating more than needed. Running or walking a mile only will burn off 100 calories. The not so obvious answer then was I needed to change my diet, and I probably need to do more than I have already done.

New Dieting Goals

The new goals with dieting are to be sensible about eating. The important things to remember are the quality and quantity of food. There are a million diets with tons of rules. Most of the diets are complicated, require special foods, and are difficult to follow for a long period of time. In reality, simpler is better.

First, remember a portion size is a ½ cup for most foods. Measure out that amount and it is not very much food. A small size French fries at MacDonald’s is likely 2 portions. A ½ cup of pasta is the size of a single scoop of ice cream. If one sticks with appropriate single sizes of portions one will not be over eating – staying to the right quantity. Next buy your own fresh food and cook it to make your meals. Eat fresh vegetables, fruits, lean meats, fish, and try some vegetarian meals since the calories will be less and healthier. Keeping the refined sugar down, as well as limiting bread and pasta helps most tremendously.

Typical meals tend to change as one begins to improve your diet. Most dietitians recommend that everyone should eat breakfast. This prevents the body from thinking it is starving and turning all intake into fat for storage. Breakfast can be a piece of fruit, Greek yogurt for diary and protein, and oatmeal or granola cereal (for more protein, fiber, and a bit of carbohydrates). Lunch is a green salad with a low fat dressing, and 4 ounces of protein. Dinner is a portion of vegetables, 5-6 ounces of lean meat, and fruit or a salad. It is okay to have a small portion of brown rice, pasta or potato, but not with butter or a fatty sauce. If you have no recipes, get yourself a cook book. Lastly, donate or throw out all of the snacks and junk food that is sitting around your home and tempting you to eat. Also, stop buying lots of processed food, and when you eat out, eat the same types of meals that you would cook on your own.

Finishing Strong

If you are serious about making a lifestyle change, then you may be successful. Some people are very self-motivated and can change if they set their minds to do something. For most of us, working with a partner and holding each other accountable often is easier and more successful. Another couple of helpful keys are to record everything you eat daily and keep a record of how much you actually eat. You must weigh out your portions and be accurate with them, and it also helps to weigh yourself once a week. Tracking your activity with a fitness tracker will also help monitor about how much you are burning, but they are notoriously overly ambitious in how many calories they are estimating that you are burning.

Starting a diet does not need to be complex. It requires one to shop from the outside edges of the grocery store.  Eat fresh fruit, vegetables and lean protein sources in controlled portion sizes. Reduce the amount of simple carbohydrates – sugars, pastas, and breads. Track your portion size, your intake, and weight. Increase your activity level and move moderately for at least 30 minutes a day. Drink more water also, as this may decrease your appetite. Lastly commit to change and keep at it.1-2 lbs of weight loss a week is excellent progress.