When Your Pain Concerns Are Being Ignored By Your Doctor

November 2, 2023 / Thomas Cohn, MD

As we’ve talked about on the blog numerous times in the past, chronic pain can be an extremely frustrating condition, and that frustration only ratchets up another level when you feel like your needs are not being met by your pain care provider. The one person who should have your back during your battle with chronic pain is your doctor, so what should you do if you feel like you’re not being heard or your needs aren’t being met? We share some tips on what you should do in this situation.

When You’re Not Being Heard By Your Pain Specialist

If you feel like your concerns simply aren’t being met by your pain care provider, take a deep breath and follow some of this advice.

1. Let Your Doctor Know – First and foremost, you’ll want to have a conversation with your doctor. There’s a very good chance that you and your doctor have different expectations or goals for your pain care, and oftentimes you can get on the same page with a simple conversation. When communicating with your doctor, be specific. Give examples of situations where you felt like you weren’t being heard or your needs weren’t met. We want this communication to be conversational, meaning that you want to talk and you also want to listen to what the other side has to say. You’d be amazed at how often care problems can be resolved with a constructive conversation.

2. Self-Evaluate – It’s also important that you take time to reflect on yourself and your situation to make sure that your frustrations are valid and directed in the right place. As we mentioned above, chronic pain can be extremely frustrating, and it’s not uncommon for patients to take that frustration out on their provider, despite the fact that their doctor is doing everything in their power to help them manage their condition. We’re not saying that your concerns aren’t valid, but self-evaluation is important in all walks of life, and it would be a shame for misplaced frustration to cause a rift between you and your care provider.

3. Ask For An Explanation – One thing many providers are guilty of is not deeply explaining the “why” behind their treatment recommendations. Whether it’s because they assume the patient has a better understanding of their condition and treatment than they do, or they simply focus on the end result and not the method itself, it’s easy for doctors to overlook important aspects of your care. Perhaps you feel like your concerns aren’t being met because you don’t understand why they are recommending the treatment they are, so please ask for clarification. We’d be more than happy to explain exactly why we believe our recommended treatment course is right for your specific situation.

4. Don’t Dwell On One Specific Instance – If you’re working to overcome a chronic pain condition, odds are you’ve visited your provider on a number of occasions. Many of those visits probably went fine, but it can be easy to really focus on one negative experience. Try not to let one bad interaction sour your experience with your doctor. We all have bad days and are juggling personal and professionally responsibilities, and we’d all like a do-over from time to time. Try to grant your provider some grace, but if the behavior becomes a pattern, move on to the last tip.

5. Find A New Provider – Finally, if you’ve tried all of the above and still feel like your doctor isn’t the right provider for you, it’s time to look elsewhere for care. We know that switching providers can be a headache, but it will be worth it to connect with a professional who truly puts your needs first. We’d love to be that provider for you, so if you want to connect with a doctor who will make sure your concerns are always heard, reach out to Dr. Cohn and his team today at (952) 738-4580.

Don’t Listen To These Three Myths About Chronic Pain

April 22, 2022 / Thomas Cohn, MD

myths Chronic pain is difficult enough to overcome without falling prey to some misconceptions or myths about your condition or how to best treat it. So if you ever hear someone say one of the following three sentences to you in regards to your chronic pain condition, know that they are mistaken and that believing them will only make it harder to overcome your pain issue. Below, we share three myths about chronic pain that you shouldn’t believe.

Don’t Believe These Three Chronic Pain Misconceptions

Even if others have the best intentions, they can end up giving bad advice if they are misinformed. If a friend or family matter ever says any of the following sentences to you in regards to your chronic pain, just ignore it, because believing it will only make it harder for you to find a helpful treatment to your chronic pain.

1. “It’s All In Your Head” – Some people simply can’t comprehend the fact that you are dealing with a physical condition that is causing real pain, so they just tell themselves that it must all be in your head. And while it’s true that pain is perceived and interpreted in the brain, that doesn’t mean that you’re just making it up. Don’t let others suggest that your pain isn’t real, because they don’t know what you’re experiencing every day. Knowing that your pain is real and acknowledging it is the first step in finding a a treatment that works for you.

2. “There’s No Cure” – Another one we hear from patients every so often is that they’ve previously been told by a provider or a family member that there is no cure for their chronic pain and that they better just accept that fact. We’ve never found a chronic pain case that we haven’t been able to at least help mitigate symptoms and make life more enjoyable, even if we can’t completely cure the condition. Know that solutions are available, and we can always work to find a way to reduce symptoms, even if the first treatment fails. Don’t accept that there is no option for your pain, because we won’t stop until we find something that works for you.

3. “Exercise Makes Chronic Pain Worse” – Chronic pain may make movement a bit uncomfortable, but that doesn’t mean that exercise is bad for your condition. In fact, the opposite is oftentimes true. Movement helps improve your health in a number of ways, many of which can help to alleviate some issues associated with chronic pain. Activity strengthens structures so that muscle groups can better handle physical stress, it gets our hearts pumping oxygenated blood to vital components in our bodies, and it triggers the release of endorphins in our brain that can act as natural pain relievers. Regular exercise is oftentimes an integral part of a comprehensive chronic pain plan. Don’t assume that just because exercise isn’t always easy with a chronic pain condition that you should shy away from it.

To connect with a specialist who can help prove to you that these sentences are myths, and who won’t stop he finds a solution that’s right for you, reach out to Dr. Cohn and his team today.

Why The Right Chronic Pain Specialist Makes All The Difference

June 16, 2021 / Thomas Cohn, MD

Chronic pain is a condition that affects tens of millions of people worldwide, and it’s one of the most difficult conditions to treat because of its complexity. In order to give yourself the best chance to reduce symptoms or successfully treat the underlying issues, you need a couple of things.

Not only do you need a positive mindset and a strong work ethic to follow through on your treatment recommendations, but you also need the right chronic pain specialist. In today’s blog, we explain why having the right chronic pain specialist by your side will make all the difference in your treatment for a pain condition.

Why You Need A Pain Doctor Who Cares

Finding a pain specialist who truly understands what you’re going through can make a world of difference. For starters, they’ll work to create a full work-up and a comprehensive diagnosis. Oftentimes a chronic pain condition is more than just a physical condition, so it’s important to have a specialist who can see how you’re being physically, mentally, emotionally and socially affected by the condition. Treatment will need to be multi-faceted in order to achieve best results and care for all aspects of your condition, so you’ll want a specialist who is willing to go the extra mile to understand all aspects of your pain.

You also need to find a pain specialist who wants to treat the underlying condition that’s causing your chronic pain, not just someone who works to mitigate symptoms. We understand that reducing symptoms can make life more bearable, but it’s kind of like putting a band-aid on a bullet wound. It won’t provide any long-term relief, and it may actually make it harder to treat your condition in the future if it continues to worsen or you begin to build up a tolerance to painkillers. It’s easy to prescribe opioids for a chronic pain condition. It’s hard to find the right active solutions. Find a doctor who is willing to do the hard work, because you’ll be better off for it.

A doctor who truly cares about your needs will also be a good listener and willing to adjust their recommendations based on your progress or lack thereof. Some doctors believe that their original diagnosis and treatment are best, even in the face of poor results. You need a doctor who is willing to listen to your concerns and pivot to new treatment options if something isn’t working. It sounds simple, but it’s not something you’ll find at every clinic.

Finally, it’s important to find a doctor who specializes in chronic pain care because they will have a wealth of experience dealing with the complex issues presented by your condition. While no two cases are ever the same, having extensive background with difficult-to-treat pain conditions can help you get a leg up on what’s bothering you. Some doctors do everything they can to help, but they simply lack the depth of experience to provide you with the level of care you need. A pain management specialist can give you that expert level of care that can make all the difference with your treatment.

If you’re looking for a provider who can check all of the above boxes, look no further than Dr. Cohn. He’ll do everything in his power to provide you with the individualized care you need to overcome your chronic pain condition. He’s done it for countless patients in the past, and he can do the same for you. For more information, or for help with your chronic pain issue, reach out to his office today.

What To Do When Chronic Pain Gets Worse

April 22, 2021 / Thomas Cohn, MD

We all hope that if we stick to a treatment plan that eventually our underlying health condition will resolve, but unfortunately that’s not always the case. At a minimum, we hope that treatment keeps symptoms from worsening, but sometimes it seems that no matter what we do, pain only gets worse. So what should you do if you find yourself facing a worsening chronic pain condition? That’s the focus of today’s blog.

When Chronic Pain Worsens

Every pain patient is different, so what works for one patient may not work for all. That being said, we’re confident that if you try a few of these tips, you’ll see some progress.

1. Don’t Give In – The first thing you need to do is not give in to pain. It can be easy to want to curl up in a ball and lay in bed all day, and while that may provide a modicum of short-term relief, it won’t do anything to put an end to your chronic pain on a long-term basis. It’s not easy, but you need to remain mentally, physically and emotionally strong in the face of a chronic pain condition. Mental health and physical pain expression are intertwined, so when you can’t control your physical pain, it’s important to try and stay on top of your mental health.

2. Talk To Your Doctor – If you haven’t been to a pain care specialist yet, now is the time to book an appointment and get an official diagnosis. If you already have a pain care provider, now is the time to connect with them and let them know your pain is getting worse and that your treatment isn’t working. During this appointment, it’s very important to be open and honest about your pain and your current treatment regimen. We’d rather you tell us that you haven’t been attending physical therapy instead of telling us that you have been going when you haven’t, because then we have an incomplete picture of your current treatment. Reach out to your doctor, be honest and see if changing your current treatment regimen may be in your best interest.

3. Double Down On The Good Stuff – Two aspects of your life that can typically help with your chronic pain condition that you have large control over are your diet and exercise routine. There are a lot of things you can’t control with chronic pain, but you can control what you put in your body and how much activity it gets. When everything else is going wrong, double down on these efforts. Make sure you’re getting daily exercise and plenty of healthy vitamins and nutrients from your food sources.

4. Work To Limit Stress – Outside sources of stress can actually make your physical pain worse, so work on eliminating stress in your life. Obviously this is easier said than done, but take a step back and really look at what’s causing stress and anxiety other than your pain condition. Some of these factors may be pivotal parts of your life, like your job or your family, but that just means you need to find new ways to manage these stressors. Exercise and taking time for yourself each day can help to reduce stress.

If you do all of these things, odds are you’ll be able to start successfully fighting back against your chronic pain condition. But if you want more hands-on help, reach out to Dr. Cohn’s office today.

Four Things Chronic Pain Patients Wish They Knew Earlier

February 25, 2021 / Thomas Cohn, MD

Many people describe their chronic pain management as a journey to find relief, and like any journey, there are things we wish we would have known earlier in the process. In today’s blog, we highlight four things that we’ve heard from some of our patients and others in the pain community that they wish they would have known earlier during their pain journey.

What Patients Wish They Would Have Known Earlier

Here’s a look at four sentiments that many patients say they wish they would have know earlier in the chronic pain management process:

1. It’s Not Just Physical – Chronic pain manifests itself in the physical form, but the underlying cause or contributing factors are not all physical. Chronic pain has strong emotional and psychological roots, so you need to make sure that you’re caring for more than just your physical health. If you’re under a lot of stress or you’re suffering from another mental health issue, it could be playing a role in the onset of your physical pain. If you only focus on the physical contributors to chronic pain, you may be ignoring promising treatment options.

2. You’re Not Alone – Chronic pain can leave you feeling isolated from the outside world, but it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. There are a number of ways to connect with others about your condition to help treat it and fight back against feelings of isolation. You can:

Connect with a pain management specialist for professional help.
Reach out to friends and family members for help or to talk, or to just take your mind of your condition.
Connect with others who are going through a similar situation in an online support group.

Know that you’re not alone in this process and that you should be relying on other people for support.

3. Your Mindset Matters – It’s also important to know that how you approach your chronic pain treatment can have an impact on its success. When you improve your mindset, you improve your outcomes. It’s obviously easier said than done, but try to focus on everything you’re doing to help you conquer your chronic pain, instead of looking at all the ways your chronic pain is affecting your life. You can start to take back control over your condition by approaching treatment with a positive and determined mindset. Talk to your pain specialist if you want extra help improving your mindset when it comes to your pain condition.

4. It’s About The Small Wins, Not Absolutes – We can never say with absolute certainty that we’ll be able to completely cure all aspects of your chronic pain condition, and while that is our goal, that’s not how you should always view your end goal. If you’re only ever focused on the existence of pain and not the fact that it’s getting better or you’re having fewer flareups, you’re only going to be discouraged in the face of progress. This discouragement can negatively impact your treatment and your long-term success. Instead, focus on small wins and celebrate them, and you’ll find it easier to keep on working hard to treat your chronic pain condition.

For more information, or for help with any of the above tips, reach out to Dr. Cohn’s office today.