As we’ve talked about on the blog numerous times in the past, chronic pain can be an extremely frustrating condition, and that frustration only ratchets up another level when you feel like your needs are not being met by your pain care provider. The one person who should have your back during your battle with chronic pain is your doctor, so what should you do if you feel like you’re not being heard or your needs aren’t being met? We share some tips on what you should do in this situation.
When You’re Not Being Heard By Your Pain Specialist
If you feel like your concerns simply aren’t being met by your pain care provider, take a deep breath and follow some of this advice.
1. Let Your Doctor Know – First and foremost, you’ll want to have a conversation with your doctor. There’s a very good chance that you and your doctor have different expectations or goals for your pain care, and oftentimes you can get on the same page with a simple conversation. When communicating with your doctor, be specific. Give examples of situations where you felt like you weren’t being heard or your needs weren’t met. We want this communication to be conversational, meaning that you want to talk and you also want to listen to what the other side has to say. You’d be amazed at how often care problems can be resolved with a constructive conversation.
2. Self-Evaluate – It’s also important that you take time to reflect on yourself and your situation to make sure that your frustrations are valid and directed in the right place. As we mentioned above, chronic pain can be extremely frustrating, and it’s not uncommon for patients to take that frustration out on their provider, despite the fact that their doctor is doing everything in their power to help them manage their condition. We’re not saying that your concerns aren’t valid, but self-evaluation is important in all walks of life, and it would be a shame for misplaced frustration to cause a rift between you and your care provider.
3. Ask For An Explanation – One thing many providers are guilty of is not deeply explaining the “why” behind their treatment recommendations. Whether it’s because they assume the patient has a better understanding of their condition and treatment than they do, or they simply focus on the end result and not the method itself, it’s easy for doctors to overlook important aspects of your care. Perhaps you feel like your concerns aren’t being met because you don’t understand why they are recommending the treatment they are, so please ask for clarification. We’d be more than happy to explain exactly why we believe our recommended treatment course is right for your specific situation.
4. Don’t Dwell On One Specific Instance – If you’re working to overcome a chronic pain condition, odds are you’ve visited your provider on a number of occasions. Many of those visits probably went fine, but it can be easy to really focus on one negative experience. Try not to let one bad interaction sour your experience with your doctor. We all have bad days and are juggling personal and professionally responsibilities, and we’d all like a do-over from time to time. Try to grant your provider some grace, but if the behavior becomes a pattern, move on to the last tip.
5. Find A New Provider – Finally, if you’ve tried all of the above and still feel like your doctor isn’t the right provider for you, it’s time to look elsewhere for care. We know that switching providers can be a headache, but it will be worth it to connect with a professional who truly puts your needs first. We’d love to be that provider for you, so if you want to connect with a doctor who will make sure your concerns are always heard, reach out to Dr. Cohn and his team today at (952) 738-4580.